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Just thinking about you makes me warm inside. Talking about you makes me smile and drift off into space with thoughts about you. When I imagine us together, I can’t see myself with anyone else.
I hope that one day, you’ll be mine. <3
Love,
Me.
You will play Munchkin with me, right? Even if I win a fair amount?
Love,
I Love You so much and I can’t wait to finally prove to you how much I do. See you soon babe, xo.
Love,
I love you so much and I can’t wait until the day that I can finally prove to you how much I do. See you soon babe, xo.
Love,
Tonight, I feel the need to write you a letter. But I have no idea who you are, so I don’t know what to tell you. I just hope you’ll come soon and you’ll bring me the happiness I want right now. I don’t know what I can ask more of you.
Love,
Me
Sometimes, I think that you don’t exist. I don’t think I’ll ever be worthy of being loved by someone as wonderful as I know you will be, but I know that I just have to have hope. One day, I will find you.
Love,
Me
After thinking about it, I don’t think I’m worth it in the least bit. Worth being the girl you date. Worth anything even having to remotely relate to a relationship. I hope that when we meet, you’ll be kind, charming, and everything I’ve imagined you to be. And maybe, just maybe, I’ll even feel as if I’m worth it when I’m with you.
Love,
i know i’m a handful, but if you stay around long enough, you’ll realize i’m worth it. i promise.
Love,
I thought I had found you. I could have sworn he was you. I guess he was just in disguise. But just know that I gave him everything I had to give. Please don’t be upset with me. I only did it because I loved him and wanted him to have all of me. And please don’t get jealous if I say “He said this one time” or “We did blah blah blah together.” It’s not that I still want him. It’s just that I’ll always love him and the memories are guterenching. And that’s only because of what I put myself through. Also, know that I will never be a pushover ever again. Please don’t control me. I need my freedom. I fucked up te relationship between me and him very bad but he should have forgiven me. Please forgive me if I ever mess up. I promise I won’t mess up like I did. And it’s going to take you such a long time to earn my trust but when you do, PLEASE, for the love of God, don’t break it. Your words are the most powerful thing. Don’t deceive me. I’m extremely hardheaded and sarcastic. I’m obnoxious and I can’t ever decide on a hair color. I go to concerts and I always say how attractive a guy in a band is, but please understand that I don’t have a chance with them. And if I call another guy cute, please be okay with it. Because I have feelings for YOU, not whoever I find attractive. Just please be understanding. Because he was the complete opposite of how I want you to act. I am very hard to handle. I have extremely bad depression and anxiety and I was just diagnosed with ADD. I can’t go to sleep without medicine and I cry because life gets so overwhelming. Please just hold me and calm me down. Anxiety attacks are scary and he never helped me. He left me to fend for myself, which obviously made everything worse. This is the most important thing I will ask of you: please respect me with everything you have. My parents, friends, and I were always afraid he’d lay his hands on me because of his temper. He liked to throw this and that scared me. I have a terrible temper so I need you to help me, not make it worse. Along with the whole short tempered thing, he has called me every word I can think of. It really did hurt. It pushed me to hate him, but it still hurt. Please don’t do that. Please only have kind words to say. I can be so bitchy but don’t bring it to my attention. I act like a 5 year old, don’t make fun of me. Please just be everything he wasn’t. As much as I love him, he was beyond bad for me. Just love me and respect me. And understand me. We should be cool.
Love,
Me
(P.S.- I scream and freakout when a band I love gets a show booked here so just bare with me. It means a lot.)
Falling in love with your best friend is the worst, please make it better by falling for me too?
Love,
Me
I think I found you, but I’m not too sure – If it is you, I’m more than elated because we get along amazingly. You infatuate me. Your charm and kindness dazzles me. Your sense of humor makes laugh and you never fail to put a smile on my face. I don’t know how you do it or what I did to deserve to have you in my life; but boy am I beyond blessed to have even met you.
Some way, and somehow, you understand me like no one has before. You get what I mean and you understand where I’m coming from; you know what I am trying to say when I can’t get it out properly, and no one has done that before.
Some days before I go to sleep, I lie there and think about you, our conversations we’ve had and just how absolutely amazing you are – just everything about you interests me. The more we talk, the more I learn about you and how you are; what makes you laugh and what cheers you up when you’re down. I’ve opened up to you about so much, things that not even my closest friends know about… so please, understand how much you mean to me. There are no words to perfectly describe how I feel and what I think about you; nothing can do you justice.
I care about you and love you a lot more than you can even fathom. I just don’t know how to tell you and how to explain it, so please understand why and how it is difficult to do so. I will eventually, but it will take some time. I’ll stop here, but just know: You will never fully be able to understand how much I truly love and care about you.
Love,
Me
Do you exist? Are you somewhere out there?
Just so you know, I’m here, waiting. I won’t waste my time with the wrong guys, you see. ‘All the love I have is in my mind’, like an Oasis song. Change it. Come and change my mind and prove me that I can truly love you.
I mean, if there’s any ‘you’.
Love,
Me.
So I met this guy at a party and we ended up kissing, nothing much just pecks. We then talked about a lot of stuff about ourselves and he showed me pictures of his niece and nephew. We text the rest of the night and the following day, but after that it wasn't much. I initiated the texts after that and we only talked maybe 3x in the past 2 weeks since we met. I am interested but I'm not getting my hopes up. He lives in another state and has a full time job. I just need some input. thank you!Anonymous
Initiate the conversations a couple more times if necessary. If he has a full time job then he’s going to be very busy and may not even be looking for a relationship.
But he definitely has interest in you.
And as always, talk to him about it! :)
Best of luck <3
I think i might know who you are. Everyone says you ‘don’t date’ but i am going to try as hard as i can to change that. You’re everything i’ve ever wanted, which is weird, coming from me. You’re attractive, funny, sweet, and you get me. I’m just hoping i can be the girl to change you. I’ll do everything it takes just to be with you.. but i guess in the mean time, i love you.
Love,
me.
P.s, ill see you soon. :)
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